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Love or imaginative affection is the feeling of love or intense attraction towards another person, and the resulting romantic behavior adopted by an individual to express that overall feeling and emotion. Love is something that comes into everyone's life to some extent. It is said, 'Those who have a heart, love; love comes into everyone's life.' No matter how or when it comes, or how many times it comes, first love is a name for a beautiful feeling. Most experiences suggest that first love does not last. However, in many cases, people marry their first love and have a happy married life afterward. Many, after entering married life, say that they should have thought a bit more before getting married. On the other hand, for most, the second or later love brings a happy married life. Some people, after being hurt in their first love, enter into a second relationship for mental well-being. Even if they are happy there, they cherish their first love in their hearts with deep affection. Many return to their first love, forgetting past bitterness, and create a good relationship between themselves. However, for many, this experience of returning is even more bitter than before.
Love is a special state of the human heart, created by a mixture of emotions and deep feelings towards someone. However, what is commonly referred to as love today is merely an illicit relationship. Such a relationship plunges people into the abyss of sin. A study conducted in Pisa, Italy, has shown that first love truly changes a person's thoughts. Dr. Donatella Marazziti, a psychiatrist at the University of Pisa, conducted a study on 20 newly in-love couples. In this study, she invited those whose relationships were less than six months old. She aimed to see how constantly thinking about a loved one could affect brain function. In her research, Marazziti found that the serotonin levels in the blood of newly in-love young men and women were the same as those in drug addicts. When a person falls in love, they cannot stay away from their beloved. Even if they are far apart, they at least look at their picture, talk to them on the phone, or lose themselves in dreams about them. If someone truly develops a weakness for another, they should marry them with family approval. Even if there is a strong intention to marry, establishing a relationship with any unrelated woman is forbidden. And the ultimate outcome of most love stories is separation and deception. It is a mirage of the devil.
Let's take a look at the types of love in today's era:
1. Love at first sight-
This type of love begins at first sight. Such love is often one-sided, and it is more commonly seen in boys. In this kind of love, there is almost inevitably a need for the help of a third party. The initiation of this type of love is largely influenced by physical beauty and appearance.
2. Love from friendship-
In this type of love, both the lover and the beloved start as friends. However, this kind of love often withers away prematurely due to a one-sided decision or mutual misunderstanding. Many cannot accept this transformation of friendship and suffer from regret, especially girls.
3. Post-marital love-
This love is seen only between husband and wife. In the first few months right after the wedding, this love is intense. There is no substitute for a honeymoon in nurturing post-marital love.
4. Extramarital love-
Love with another man or woman, other than one's husband or wife after marriage, is called extramarital love. This extramarital love has been present since ancient times.
5. Immature love-
This type of love generally occurs while in school. Girls are more likely to fall into this kind of love. However, it would be incorrect to say that boys do not experience it as well. Both the lover and the beloved can be of the same age.
6. Workplace love-
This type of love develops through the acquaintance of two people in a work-related context. It is more commonly seen in private organizations.
7. Mobile love-
This type of love begins by obtaining a number from a friend, stealing it from a phone book, collecting it from a local phone shop, getting it from some other source, or simply creating a number by mixing a bit of imagination and then calling it to connect with a girl
8. Internet love-
Love through chatting on the internet or social media is now quite common. This type of love begins through the acquaintance of two people. In this kind of love, both parties have many opportunities to deceive each other.
9. Triangle love-
This type of love can be described as a tug-of-war between two boys over one girl. The essence of this love is the affection of two boys for the same girl. Both boys are desperate to win her over.
10. Polyamorous love-
Attraction from two or more individuals towards the same girl or boy is essentially polyamorous love. In this case, the girl or boy naturally possesses striking beauty. The fact that everyone wants to be in love with them brings them great joy.
11. Strained love-
The purpose of this type of love is to gain some special benefit from the lover or beloved. While this kind of love is more commonly seen among girls, boys are also occasionally found engaging in it.
12. Unexpressed love-
Even though they silently love each other, due to circumstances, timing, or lack of courage, neither the lover nor the beloved has ever expressed it to one another. The pain of unexpressed love is very painful and remains in one's mind as one of life's biggest regrets.
13. Dormant love-
This type of love is when two people love each other but neither of them is expressing it; the whole affair remains hidden. Dormant love, if it stays dormant for a lifetime, eventually turns into unexpressed love.
14. Contractual love-
This type of love occurs through mutual agreement. The general meaning of love is absent in this kind of relationship. There is no future in these relationships.
15. Secular love-
In this type of love, both the boy and the girl belong to different religions or communities. Society does not support such relationships. In particular, love between Hindu and Muslim boys and girls creates a lot of controversy.
16. Rented love-
In this type of love, the lovers can be said to be 'rented.' They may be someone's girlfriend in the morning and someone else's in the afternoon. There is no specific address. It's somewhat like changing mobile handsets every month.
17. Quarrelsome love-
The constant bickering between the two is a characteristic of this type of love. In this kind of love, the arguments are temporary but occur very frequently. Most of the arguments happen over the phone.
18. 'I still love you' love-
In this type of love, the lovers have already separated. Yet, they still love each other. This love has been spent in sighs and tears.
19. Failed love-
Finally, there is failed love. This love ends before it even begins. The number of failed lovers is several times greater than that of failed beloveds. The end of failed love often comes with a rejection of a proposal. Sometimes, boys end up getting slapped by girls, and at other times, they receive a complete thrashing.